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		<title>Solutions to Care Giving at Long Distance</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Jan 2010 19:36:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan R. Love</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Baby Boomers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[caregiver]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[When helping a family member who lives far away, you have to rely on periodic visits and the reports of others. Since checking-in on your loved one involves advance planning, it may be more difficult to solve certain problems. Luckily, there are solutions to many of these issues.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As so often is the case in this modern era of dispersed families, care giving of a loved one advancing in the aging process can pose unique problems. Fortunately, modern technology can ease some of the concerns and make it possible that an older family member can continue living independently even though caring relatives are not nearby. We found this article that offers the lowdown on many solutions that can ease the burdens as well as the mind. Read on.<span id="more-1548"></span></p>
<p><strong>Long Distance Caregiving Solutions</strong></p>
<p>When helping a family member who lives far away, you have to rely on periodic visits and the reports of others. Since checking-in on your loved one involves advance planning, it may be more difficult to solve certain problems. Luckily, there are solutions to many of these issues.</p>
<p>Concern: Your loved one can no longer leave his home to go grocery shopping or tends to buy unhealthy foods.</p>
<p>Solution: Help your elderly family member set up an online account at a grocery store, so he can order from home and have his groceries delivered. You can even order for him if you'd prefer to choose the food items yourself. If you'd rather order pre-made meals DineWise delivers meals nationwide. They have options for people on special low-calorie, low-fat, or low-sodium diets. This is the perfect solution for diabetics or those with high cholesterol.</p>
<p>Concern: Your loved one isn't getting the most out of his doctor's appointments.</p>
<p>Solution: Ask your loved one if you can have access to his medical files. If he agrees, make sure he signs a release form at the next appointment. Better yet, schedule his next appointment to coincide with your visit. Once you are able to communicate with his doctor openly, you can express any concerns you may have. You will also know exactly what the doctor expects of his patient.</p>
<p>Concern: Your loved one does not want to move, but you don't believe he is safe enough to live at home.</p>
<p>Solution: Ask neighbors to check in periodically and purchase a Medical Alert System. The system includes a panic button, and the accessories needed to wear it as a pendant, watch, or on a belt clip. Once the button is pressed, a larger home unit calls a live dispatcher who can then help your loved one get whatever help he needs. A remote monitoring system is also a great product that can greatly ease your anxiety. This device can be programmed to have a live video feed. It can also be used to adjust the temperature and lighting-it can even set the burglar alarm!</p>
<p>Long distance caregiving isn't easy, but technology has made it simpler than ever. The products designed for home care have made a huge impact on many people's lives and will continue to do so.</p>
<p>Looking to find the best deal on <a href='http://www.homecaregiverstore.com'>home caregiving products</a>, then visit www.HomeCaregiverStore.com to find the best selection of <a href='http://hubpages.com/hub/Challenges-and-Solutions-to-Long-Distance-Caregiving'>senior care products</a> for your long distance caregiving needs.</p>

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		<title>Getting an Eye Exam Regularly</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2009 14:37:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robert</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Health & Medicine]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Aging Process]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[diabetic retinopathy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[eye care]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Unfortunately most people do not realize the importance of proper and regular eye care. Because of this ignorance most eye diseases are not detected or left untreated for a long time until it is too late to cure it. Therefore it is crucial to approach a good vision eye care center for optometric eye care.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In a recent physical, my doctor spotted some early signs of cataracts which reminds me that I should schedule an eye exam. I'm not experiencing any symptoms at all, so, like most of us, my attitude has been that if it doesn't seem broken, don't fix it. But the fact is that I haven't had my eyes looked at for at least three years.<span id="more-1057"></span></p>
<p>For many years, and through my fifties, I was near sighted. Now, it's just the reverse. My distance vision is sharp, but I need glasses for reading. During my last eye exam, the doctor told me that was normal in the aging process. Anyhow, the following article is also a good reminder that I need to get an eye examination whether I think I need it or not. I'm picking up the phone to make an appointment just as soon as I've finished doing this posting. Read on for more discussion.</p>
<p><strong>The Need for Optometric Eye Care in a Vision Eye Care Center</strong></p>
<p>Unfortunately most people do not realize the importance of proper and regular eye care. Because of this ignorance most eye diseases are not detected or left untreated for a long time until it is too late to cure it. Therefore it is crucial to approach a good vision eye care center for optometric eye care. </p>
<p>Some of the conditions that can result due to carelessness in eye care are macular degeneration, glaucoma and several other eye conditions. These eye conditions and various other diseases can be prevented by going for regular eye exams. </p>
<p>There are various treatments for these problems, including laser eye care. But however in order to help you realize the importance of optometric eye care and to choose the right eye care facility to do it, here are some basic information that you should be aware of.</p>
<p><strong>Macular Degeneration</strong></p>
<p>One reason that you are going to want togo to a vision eye care center is for macular degeneration, which is one of the most commonly developed eye conditions. </p>
<p>Macular degeneration can seriously affect these activities.</p>
<p>This is a common eye condition that can be treated easily as long as it is detected in time.</p>
<p>However, when left undetected or untreated for an extended period of time it may cause total blindness, which is why choosing the right vision eye care center for optometric care is of utmost importance. </p>
<p>So it becomes absolutely necessary to register with a reputed vision eye care center where you can have your eyes examined regularly by a professional who can make sure that your eyes are in good health. </p>
<p><strong>Diabetic Retinopathy</strong> </p>
<p>Diabetic retinopathy is another eye condition that urges one to follow regular optometric care in a good vision eye care center. This eye condition results due to a complication of diabetes and can be prevented or treated if detected in time. </p>
<p>Only in very rare cases does this condition clears on its own and if you want to avoid such a disease, the only way is to get your eyes examined regularly by an eye care professional.</p>
<p>The necessity for regular eye care is just not for your eyes but for your overall health. So make sure to take time to visit a vision eye care center for optometric eye care today.</p>
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		<title>Older Adults are Embracing Go-Karting</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Nov 2008 17:43:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robert</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Grandparents]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[aging]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[The subject of Go-Karting may seem a bit strange for a site devoted to the aging process, but, if the truth be known, many older adults are finding that Go-Karts offer a terrific recreational outlet. Jay Leno, who's 58 as of this writing, is an enthusiast. 
What kid doesn't yearn to drive? If you're a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The subject of <a href="http://www.gokartnet.com" target="_blank">Go-Karting</a> may seem a bit strange for a site devoted to the aging process, but, if the truth be known, many older adults are finding that Go-Karts offer a terrific recreational outlet. Jay Leno, who's 58 as of this writing, is an enthusiast. </p>
<p>What kid doesn't yearn to drive? If you're a boomer with adolescents or a grandparent with grand kids that age, you might just want to consider participating in this ideal sport for the entire family. If you want to spend some quality time with your grandchildren, you might want to give this some thought.<span id="more-651"></span></p>
<p>Many people think that go karts are just for kids.  That's probably because these cars started out as children's toys.  Add their small size and the unusual spelling, and it's no surprise that many people aren't aware that older adults can have a lot of fun on go karts - and, as mentioned, even Jay Leno is a huge fan.  While there are junior leagues in go karting, it's a lot more popular with adults, with karts capable of going as fast as sixty miles an hour.</p>
<p>That kind of speed doesn't feel very fast if you're driving a car on the interstate, but just try it in a go kart, and you'll see how fast sixty miles per hour can really be.  There's no suspension in a kart, no windshield, and no enclosed cabin to keep you from feeling the wind.  Plus, the bottom of a kart is only a few inches from the ground, so you'll feel every change in the pavement.  Even professional racers say going top speed in a go kart feels much faster than the same speed in a Formula 1 racer.</p>
<p>Go karts are becoming popular with adults in all kinds of settings, even including corporate outings.  Some go kart tracks do mostly corporate business, with sessions focused on leadership development, staff motivation and team building.  These corporate events are dedicated to the metaphor of racing, and even business professionals get to cut loose and hit the track in a go kart.  In fact, karting is probably the fastest growing motor sport.</p>
<p>Serious go karting can be expensive, with kart ownership costing as much as a small car.  High end go karts can cost over ten thousand dollars and hit highway speeds, making it clear that they're not just for kids.  This kind of racing kart is used only on large outdoor tracks.  Indoor karts are used on smaller tracks and generally go only about forty miles per hour.  </p>
<p>However, the turns and twists on a commercial go kart track can make even that seem a lot faster - it's like a roller coaster that you can control.  Indoor karts also have more safety features, including steel buffers to keep cars from knocking wheels on a tight track - something that could be dangerous at high speeds. </p>
<p>Adults who are interested in driving go karts can just walk into a track, and pay for a session - usually about thirty to forty dollars.  However, they'll have to wear protective clothing and go through a safety talk, since these karts are a lot more powerful than the ones driven by kids.  There are even adult racing leagues at most tracks, allowing kart enthusiasts to compete against one another.  A typical race is fifteen laps, with each lap taking about twenty seconds.</p>
<p>If you've been thinking that go karting is just for kids, think again.  This is a great sport that can be enjoyed by anyone.  Many grownups are getting back into go karting, and having a lot of fun.</p>

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		<title>Long Term Care Insurance &#8211; Six Things You Must Know</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2008 17:32:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Terry Stanfield</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Baby Boomers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[asset protection]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[When looking at a long term care insurance quote, there are many factors which can determine the cost to you. This article will give you six important points you should consider when looking at a ltci quote. Much of this is determined by type of benefits you want, your age, and which company you want to work with. This will allow you to be an educated consumer when purchasing this insurance product.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When looking at a long term care insurance quote, there are many factors which can determine the cost to you. This article will give you six important points you should consider when looking at a ltci quote. Much of this is determined by type of benefits you want, your age, and which company you want to work with. This will allow you to be an educated consumer when purchasing this insurance product.<span id="more-645"></span></p>
<p>Long term care insurance quotes can be very complex but this article will give you six important points to consider. When you buy your policy and the type of policy you choose will allow the quote to change.</p>
<p>When you are thinking about long-term care, you need to think about what types of benefits you will want. You can receive in-home service, nursing home care, or community based services to give you an idea.</p>
<p>One factor in the cost of your policy is your age. Getting your policy at a younger age allows the premium to be lower.</p>
<p>The types of companies you approach for an ltci quote can help determine a different cost in your quote. You may be able to receive this quote through your employer.</p>
<p>Your quote can be contingent upon how you want benefits to be paid out. Some policies allow you to spend a certain maximum in whatever way you want while others offer a maximum based upon a daily, weekly, or monthly time frame.</p>
<p>You have the option to choose when you are able to start using benefits and this will cause a change in your insurance quote.</p>
<p>Daily benefits can also pay a part in the quote you receive from an insurance agent. If you want higher daily benefits, this will cause your ltci quote to be higher.</p>
<p>This article should have opened your eyes to a greater degree to what to expect when receiving a long term care insurance quote. You want to have as much information out and on the table when talking about this because it is important to know what to expect with your policy.</p>
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		<title>Devastating Impact of Alcoholism on the Family</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2008 14:42:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Carl-Peter Lehmann</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Diseases and Conditions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[aging]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Aging Process]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[alcoholism]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[The effects of alcoholism on the family can be devastating. Having a husband, wife, mother or father as an alcoholic can potentially destroy a family.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alcoholism is a progressive disease that only gets worse as the sufferer moves through the aging process. That means that it tends, over time, to have increasingly harmful effects on the family and relationships within the family. Moreover, if the alcoholic is unwilling to do anything ro seek recovery, it becomes incumbent on other family members to adjust their lives in ways that will minimize the impact of the disease. Here are some further insights into the delemma.<span id="more-560"></span></p>
<p><strong>How Alcoholism Impacts the Family</strong></p>
<p>The effects of alcoholism on the family can be devastating. Having a husband, wife, mother or father as an alcoholic can potentially destroy a family.</p>
<p>If you've been in a long-term relationship with an alcoholic, codependency is almost inevitable, which essentially means that as a codependent you suffer from relationship addiction.</p>
<p>Being in a codependent relationship means your needs aren't being fulfilled emotionally and that the relationship will in all likelihood be totally one-sided - you trying to please or 'be there' for your spouse/partner. This will also have a huge impact on any kids you may have because they will pick up on the destructive nature of the relationship, which will affect them especially in later years.</p>
<p>The effects of alcoholism on a relationship or marriage are huge, in that it naturally puts huge strain on the relationship. So it may reach a stage whether things have just gotten too bad for you (and your kids) that staying in the relationship is just not possible. Considering the whole alcoholism and divorce conundrum or looking at separation may then become a very real issue for you. </p>
<p>Having grown up in a family where alcoholism was prevalent and caused so much pain, I know that it's a complex issue to handle and that there simply isn't a right/wrong answer. Each family's situation is unique. Questions like, is there abuse involved, how badly are the kids being effected, how bad has the alcoholism become? - are one's that only you can answer and will provide you with more clarity as to what the right thing to do is.</p>
<p>Eventually something you will have to do is begin taking a stand and practising tough love - if there is to be any hope that things will change. You're going to have to draw a line in the sand and say that 'this is it.'</p>
<p>This is when doing an intervention could be your trump card - because if done properly, and done well - it could well get your partner or spouse into proper treatment, and so be the start of things turning around.</p>
<p>At the end of the day though, there just isn't a quick fix solution. It will definitely help speaking to, and meeting others, who have gone through what you have. Al-Anon, is a great support network and excellent place for you to start. The worst thing in the world you can do, is try to keep things covered up and be ashamed of what is happening - so don't be afraid to reach out and ask for help because there is lots of it out there.</p>
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<div class='links'>There is lots more advice on C-P's website to help you. Visit <a href="http://www.alcoholism-and-drug-addiction-help.com/alcoholism-and-the-family.html">Alcoholism and the Family</a> to learn more about the alcoholism-family dynamic. And to discover more about what <a href="http://www.alcoholism-and-drug-addiction-help.com/codependency.html">Codependency</a> entails, simply click on the link.
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		<dc:creator>Terry Stanfield</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The future is uncertain and anything can happen. You may live a long and healthy life, only to die at the age of 102 while you are out on your daily jog, or you may suffer a stroke at the age of 62 and require long-term care to help you accomplish your daily activities. As a result, you need to start planning for long-term health care to ensure you do not suffer from an unexpected event that could leave you as a financial burden on your family.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The future is uncertain and anything can happen. You may live a long and healthy life, only to die at the age of 102 while you are out on your daily jog, or you may suffer a stroke at the age of 62 and require long-term care to help you accomplish your daily activities. As a result, you need to start planning for long-term health care to ensure you do not suffer from an unexpected event that could leave you as a financial burden on your family.<span id="more-128"></span></p>
<p>Planning for long-term health care comes down to two factors: savings and insurance. If you have a large savings, you will be able to use it as a cushion while you get long-term care insurance to help pay your expenses, without dipping into your savings too much. When you get long-term care insurance, you will be paying the premiums for several years before you start to think about collecting benefits on it, but when you do you will have a wonderful monthly income that may leave your savings untouched.</p>
<p>You may have $50,000 saved up in the bank, or even more, but when you factor in all your expenses, especially the fact it can costs $5,000 a month to stay in a nursing home, your $50,000 disappears after only 10 months. If you have $500,000 saved up, then your savings will cover you for about eight years, but if you are 62 when you suffer a stroke that leaves you in need of daily care for 10 years, you are two years too short. However, if you have a plan that pays you $2,000 a month, you are able to extend your ability to pay for your nursing home and your home care by an another five years. That comes from only paying $40 a month or more into your premium!</p>
<p>It is incredibly important to start planning for long-term health care because when you are young, your premiums will be much less than when you are older. As well, nearly half of all individuals who collect on long-term care insurance plans are people below retirement age. Accidents can happen and you don't want to be a burden on your family when you were an asset before. Planning your long-term health care through long-term care insurance programs means that will not happen and you will receive the care you need, while your family does not have to lose out financially.</p>
<p>Conclusion Long-term health care needs can happen to anyone, from the earliest age to the oldest. To ensure that you can afford the high costs of nursing and home care, you will need to start planning your long-term health care. This can be done through getting long-term care insurance policies that will give you the cushion you need to enjoy life in a nursing home, without having to worry about your finances. Savings will run out eventually, so you should prolong them as long as you can by planning your long-term health care with a long-term care insurance plan.</p>
<p>You should ask for help from an insurance representative who specializes in long term care insurance to answer any questions.</p>
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<div class='uawlinks'>Before you go out and buy a policy go to <a href="http://www.longtermcareinsurance-guide.com">Long Term Care Insurance Guide</a>.
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